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February 10, 2010

Friendships Thoughts by Judy

I recently traveled to New Jersey and was a guest at the home of Eileen “Strong Feather’ Colon. It was a great joy to meet Strong Feather again and to meet her family and some of her friends who support her in her endeavors with the Regulars. It was a great privilege of mine to meet the founder of the Regulars, Enzo Simone, at Strong Feather’s home. Enzo is an amazing person whom I admire for his passion and commitment to ending Parkinson’s disease (PD) and Alzheimer’s disease (ALZ). His mother has ALZ and his father-in-law has PD.
Enzo has gift of encouraging others to go beyond their expectations and to take a leap of faith in ones own dreams. He is a not only an inspiration to many people, he is a friend. He is a friend like those Strong Feather writes about in a blog dated Jan 3, 2009 on 10mountains10years.blogspot.com. I like how she describes the bonds of friendships she has made through her efforts with The Regulars. It made me think of my friendships and I wanted to write a similar note paralleling herds but with my perspective on my many friendships I have formed by living with Parkinson’s disease. (Being a part of Parkinson’s Journey is a direct result of a very special friendship I have with Sherri and from meeting her in an online support site.) So I hope you will read Strong Feather’s article and then see the similarities in what these friendships mean to us as you read my thoughts below.
I would also like to encourage you to learn about the Regulars and become friends with them. And, I hope you will consider joining me and The Regulars this year on Mt. Washington as part of the “Army of Change” and as a personal commitment to end PD and ALZ! If you will believe “Together is One” then we as ’regular people’ have the best chance of ridding the world of Alzheimer’s and Parkinson‘s!
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(This is written as a parallel to a blog article “Friendships” posted on Jan 3, 2009 on 10mountains10years.blogspot.com by Strong Feather of the Regulars. “Friendships” was written a year ago but it all will always ring true.)

Friendships

The following is from Judy’s perspective as a person living with Parkinson’s disease and a supporter of The Regulars: I have formed some very special friendships with people I’ve met on the internet who have ventured there to learn about Parkinson’s disease. I went online in 2004 almost 2 years after I was diagnosed to hear how others cope with this illness. Many times these friendships are initially formed by these simple typed words “Hi, how are you?” “I have PD, do you?”. And then a conversation begins. And friendships grow. Friendships that will never be broken, will endure any test, and be based on respect and admiration for coping with a chronic illness that has affected our lives. We soon recognize those who share our passions and we become unified in our thoughts, our dreams, and our intent. Men, women, sons, daughters, people with Parkinson’s, people with Alzheimers, caregivers, and friends.

I mention Alzheimer’s because I have met new friends dealing with this illness since I have become a supporter of The Regulars who climb mountains to bring awareness to these illnesses. There is no real discrimination of people who are affected by ALZ and PD …we’re all on the same page. When we talk about our struggles they are different but very much the same and bonds are formed. We are all one. And we all have this hope: that a cure will be real some day.

We encourage, we try to know when to type, and when to let the other one vent. We may come from different backgrounds, different continents, have different life experiences and many of us are joining a common cause through efforts of the Regulars or the Parkinson’s Unity Walk or other efforts involving awareness of an illness that we live with every day. Whether or not any cure is found from these efforts, I can say that good things will come just because a camaraderie has evolved. There is a bond that is formed by these friends that embodies goodness, kindness and love –and I’ve been blessed to have felt it many times. The person who is a caregiver feels it, and the one who bears the pain of the illness of PD or ALZ feels it. A feeling of trust amongst one another is prevalent. Whenever we share our trials or joys, each of us share in it and that in itself brings comfort. Whether or not you have felt the exact pain or joy, you are willing to share it and you benefit from it all.

Many times we may never meet our online friends in person, but when you do, then you can really get to know their hearts. You can see it in their eyes. Their eyes are the windows to their souls. When you speak and look at the person that you had been talking to via the computer it solidifies the feeling that was already there – that the path and thoughts you share together are part of a common goal.
You learn even more from the things you talk about in person. You can give that hug or a pat on the back that you‘ve wanted to give so many times before you met. You finally meet and have some time to share, to laugh, to cry, or time to just sit and know that someone is there who cares. Our conversations may go from serious to silly and then back to our illness or struggles or triumphs, but it is all good because we know someone else understands the road we travel.
Even if you only know these friends online, you can compare symptoms,results, successes, failures, recommendations and experiences with doctors, medication tips, relationships, or just about anything related to the illness that impacts your life. And when you feel like you’ve hit rock bottom, friends of the heart will be there… reaching out with words of encouragement, almost as if a hand was really there helping you back up. They will remind you of limitations but urge you to follow your dreams, and they will applaud when you soar high in anything you try!
We hold deep the stories we share, the passion we share, and of course, the friendships we share. Nobody can give this to you. You have to want it, to own it. It flows in all of us.
And the vision and friendship and support you have knowing the Regulars will make you want to do more for your friends with PD. It will bring you alongside new friends who live with Alzheimers. Perhaps two illnesses can be defeated by one army made up of people just like you, me, our family and friends.
So I’d like to challenge my friends with this last paragraph which is unaltered and is Strong Feather’s own words. It so aptly provokes us all to consider accepting a new job, a new dream, new way of finding a cure – and being a part of something special.
Think about it for a day. Think about it for a week. This is how things get done. This is how things happen. Just a simple meet and greet to strapping on a pack and becoming part of the team. Or you can just advocate, raise money and become part of the dream. Just as rewarding, if the physical challenge of climbing is too much for you, [is] if you become part of this project in any capacity, the hope of cures being found and money to help fund projects becomes more of a reality. Think of those you love and how you inspire them. They too will join forces to help. If we all come together it can be done. Believe in the cause and then become part of the cause.
“Together is One”
You have the opportunity to be a part of a climb yourself with the Regulars on July 31st, 2010 on Mt. Washington – New Hampshire. I hope you will be there to climb what could be your own Mt. Everest and make a difference in the quest for a cure!
Judy

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February 5, 2010

Do You Not Know? Climbing Mt. Washington

10It was a year ago exactly, that I was surfing the net and came across a group of regular people that caught my attention. I didn’t know anything about them, but I was intrigued when I discovered what they were up to.

They call themselves the Regulars. For those of you not familiar with this group, they are a team of ordinary people, on a quest toward a great purpose. They are determined to bring awareness to Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s disease in order to find a cure.

The group, founded and led by Enzo Simone, began its quest in 2006. A Trail Called Hope was born out of Enzo’s desire to see Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s disease conquered by bringing worldwide attention to help in finding a cure. His method? Conquering one mountain at a time for the next ten years and forming an ever-changing entourage of members who climb with him each year.

Several have been invited to climb, but not all are able. If physical limitations don’t present a barrier, then the work it takes to just get to the trailhead itself may hinder a wanna-be Regular. In Enzo’s words, “Becoming one of the Regulars is not a flight of fancy and will require you to work hard in more ways than you can imagine. You will promise yourself and others a number of things by becoming one of the Regulars.”

What exactly are those promises? Enzo calls them the Regulars’ 11 Commandments, making it clear what is expected from each team member. Some of them are:

together pic~You must be willing to fund raise.

~You will be willing to make many sacrifices.

~You must be willing to raise awareness.

~You must be willing to pay your own way for all expenses.

~You must be willing to share your experiences with others.

~You must be willing to promote the need for not one, but BOTH Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s to benefit the Alzheimer’s Association AND Michael J. Fox Foundation – Team Fox.

~Although the following is not a requirement, it is usually best if Alzheimer’s has impacted your family (or Parkinson’s) so that you have seen the devastation first hand and can tell others through your own experiences with these diseases.

Raising awareness and funds for Parkinson’s and Alzheimer’s disease is not just an agenda for Enzo. It isjudy and enzo also a personal quest. He sees the devastation it has caused in members of his family. He knows of and has lived within its consequences with loved ones – first hand. However, because of the trail he has chosen to walk, he has seen and/or met hundreds, if not thousands of others who have been affected by these diseases. He knows their struggles, their dreams, and often many times, their hopelessness. However, Enzo’s motto: In the quest to conquer Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s disease, we were born to end this! In living his motto, he in turn has revived hope in the people who are afflicted with these diseases.

In his latest climb, he and his team conquered Mt. Kilimanjaro in July of this past year. The climb was filmed and sections of can it be seen in the upcoming documentary, 10 Mountains 10 Years, which is being produced by Back Light Productions. The movie’s introduction is done by Leeza Gibbons, narrated by Anne Hathaway and Bruce Springsteen has contributed his time and talent to the project as well. The film festival locations and dates, however, have not yet been released. This is currently the Regulars’ largest awareness project/fundraiser they’ve currently got in the works.

Their next climb? What originally was to be Aconcagua in Mexico, the Regulars have taken a side trail and substituted “The Army of Change” Mount Washington project in New Hampshire to their list of mountains to conquer.  This ‘little jaunt’ was added for the benefit of those who are fighting for a cure for Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s disease and are unable (for whatever reason) to conquer an Everest or a Mt. Hood but want to participate in some sort of climb. Because of the magnitude of interest the Regulars are stirring, they hope to get at least a thousand advocates climbing Mt. Washington together this summer. (If you would like to be a part of the Mt. Washington climb taking place on July 31, contact Enzo Simone at the Regular’s website 10mountains10years.)

As I said, it has been almost a year since I first heard about the Regulars. Within that year, they have raised thousands of dollars to find a cure for Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s disease. Within a year, they have climbed a minimum of 19, 341 feet – the height of Mt. Kilimanjaro. Within a year, they have brought considerable attention to their cause – a quest to end these two diseases. Within a year, they have given hope back to those afflicted by two debilitating diseases and enabled them to dream once again because of the attention this team of regular people are bring to these diseases.

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If you’d like more information, you can visit their website above or find them on their Facebook page, 10 Mountains, 10 Years. Perhaps within a year, we’ll have witnessed history and seen a cure finally found for Parkinson’s and/or Alzheimer’s disease. Now, wouldn’t that be a mountain top experience!

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February 1, 2010

An Open Letter to Enzo Simone from Judy

Dear Enzo, my friend,

I write this to you but many parts also apply to all The Regulars. The hand written copy of this note on the back may be hard to read but it is done with a purpose. The effort and time it takes me with PD to write this note takes a significant effort. But I compare it to the efforts of you and your members who climb mountains, and see how small my effort is!

I want to try and say ‘Thank You’, for not only what you and the Regulars do today, but what you have done, and what we will do in the future!

Even if a small benefit comes from your efforts in the world’s eyes, DO NOT let others define your successes or failures. I tell you this because in the hearts and lives of many living with ALZ and PD you have made a HUGE difference!!

For example, many days it may seem PD has turned my life up-side-down and I look around and I am reminded of one who encourages others just by having these two words as his motto/nickname/etc: “WORLD UP!” It is then I tell myself–”do not let PD turn your world into a mess, but do what you can to make the best of it!”

Thank you all so much for showing us each a simple but profound truth of hope for our illnesses: “Together is One!” Thank you for bringing two communities together and allowing us to find new friends, touch new lives, and see new hope.

I could go on but I want you to know this:

I could call you my HEROES but that would not impress you, so I hope thanking you for being my friend and advocate for a cure will be enough to let you know just how much you and The Regulars and all those who support the ‘quest for a cure” mean to me!

I will endure for a cure..and may climb a mountain while I wait!

Much respect and admiration,

Judy “IN10CITY” Hensley
Johnson City TN
47 yrs old, diagnosed with PD 7 yrs ago
Note: If you are not familiar with Enzo and the Regulars, you owe it to yourself to visit their website at www.10mountains10years.blogspot.com. You will be amazed and blessed.

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February 19, 2009

World Up! Meet the Regulars – Making A Difference One Mountain at A Time

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There is a song called, ‘Ordinary People’. These are the words:


Just ordinary people,
God uses ordinary people.
He chooses people just like me and you,
who are willing to do as He commands.
God uses people that will give Him all,
no matter how small your all may seem to you;
because little becomes much

as you place it in the Master’s hand.

We’d like you to meet some ordinary, ‘regular’ people… The Regulars.

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Leave no stone unturned in the search for cures.
The conquest of Alzheimer’s Disease & Parkinson’s Disease will be won by Regular People like you.

As we say in the Regulars. . .

In this battle to defeat Alzheimer’s & Parkinson’s,
“the Regulars” did not come to take prisoners.

We came to set them free.

A special group of people committing to an epic plan to climb 10 mountains in 10 years to help find cures for Alzheimers and Parkinson’s are known as the Regulars. You can read about them by clicking on the links and if you are an avid Facebook junkie, they can also be found on MySpace under “Groups” and Facebook under “Causes” (or, click on the links).

This year is the fourth year in their projected climbs and in July, they are slated for Africa, destination Mt. Kilimangaro. In preparation, one member of their team, Strong Feather Eileen, says, “Now my journey begins as I continue to clear all obstacles from my path and continue to search inside beyond the physical. Mt. Hood taught me many lessons. Mt. Washington has given me confidence. Mt. Kilimanjaro will define me.”

The team, led by Enzo Simone, began in 2006 with their epic climb up the highest peak in Continental Europe, Mount Blanc. Their travel around the globe, beginning with Mt. Blanc and ending with Mt. Everest in 2015, is called A Trail Called Hope, a campaign started to raise awareness and funds needed to help find cures for those with Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s Disease.

We strongly desire to let this awesome team of ‘regular’ people know that we support them and encourage them in not only what they’re doing now, but thank them for what they’ve done.

One of the team members, Chadd Tabor, knows first hand what it’s like to live with PD. “I was diagnosed with early onset Parkinson’s 3 years ago. I spent most of my time trying to hide it. Now, I am spending my time trying to fight it. When I first started reaching out to fellow PD’ers, several people told me about the Regulars. I read the Bios and watched the videos. It inspired me more than words can explain. Enzo offered me a spot and it blew my mind! Could I climb a mountain? Do I own a decent pair of thick socks? (he he he) Ain’t it cold there? Lions, tigers, and bears. Oh my! How could a guy in my situation, with PD, pass up an opportunity like this? A chance of a lifetime for the fight of a lifetime. Alot of things can happen to and for me between now and the climb. So regardless of my shaky legs on a mountain or on the sidelines I am thankful for the opportunity to play a part in this amazing adventure. Rock on Regulars!”

You can read more about each member of the team at their website. You can also read about their upcoming climb, A Trail Called Hope – IV and Team Kilimanjaro at their website, The Regulars.

The Regulars are looking forward to a big year in 2009. Enzo Simone says, “Time flies and our project is now in it’s fourth year. We have a dynamic team, and we have raised the bar on what we hope to accomplish. This year Back Light Productions hopes to complete the first of three feature film documentaries to follow our project around the world during our decade long epic.”

Black Light Productions, ‘a Los Angeles based motion picture company that produces stories that enrich, inspire, and dignify the goodness of the human experience’, is chronicling the worldwide epic. 10 Mountains 10 Years, is a documentary feature film following the international team of mountain climbers. As well as tracking ‘the greatest advances and climbs happening in the medical community’, they are also following individuals battling these two diseases with their caregivers in the long term.

“This is a story of hope and of common everyday people coming together to change this world and leave something better behind. A collaboration with the Alzheimer’s Association and the Michael J. Fox Foundation, 100% of all profits from the film go towards medical research and caregiver programs. ” (Black Light Productions)

To help support the 10 Mountains 10 Years feature film documentary, Black Light is offering the awesome opportunity to purchase a “Special Thanks” credit. For $20, your name (or the name of a friend or loved one per your designation) will appear in the end credits of the movie, making you a lasting part of this enormous endeavor. Credit purchases go towards production expenses to make this philanthropic project a reality. You can read more at Black Light’s 10 Mountains in Ten Years site.

Although science and research move forward and chip away at both Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s Disease, there is still no cure. In this quest, ‘no stone can be left unturned. All must be explored’ (Enzo Simone). The next stone to turn and the next area of exploration: Mount Kilimanjaro – highest mountain in Africa.

They will be traveling June 28th and will start climbing on July 3rd for five days. The team will consist of its Team Lead Enzo Simone, and will include Brett Curtis, Jennifer Yee, Eileen Bencivengo/Colon, Eric Buzzetto, Nadyne Perlin, Margaret Fuller, Lori Saviers, Adam Mitchell, Jaymes Brevard, Bill Glover, Chadd Tabor, Luc Thoelen, and Denise Albero.

On behalf of the entire Alzheimer’s and PD community, we want to thank all of the Regulars, both past and present for what you have done and continue to do. We leave you with a quote by Enzo Simone.

Inspiration is the beginning of all my efforts (our efforts). When we feel we can do no more, inspiration is the whisper in our ear telling us to stand up and try again. It can be done.

Be inspired. Listen to the whisper. Stand and don’t ever give up. Believe in the cause and then… become part of it.

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Co-authored by Judy Hensley and Sherri Woodbridge

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